Hear God’s Voice of Love in Your Dark Times

Hear God’s Voice of Love in Your Dark Times

March 19, 2023

Series: Make Space

Jason Cusick

Jason Cusick

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There are times in life when we just “hit a wall.” It could be the loss of a relationship, a personal failure, a mental health crisis, an unexpected diagnosis, or an unbearable season of feeling disconnected from God. Instead of denying our real feelings or spiritualizing them away, Jesus invites us into a healthy spirituality. In this message we’ll look at an event in the life of Elijah, an ancient Hebrew prophet who found God in the darkest moment of his life—and we’ll see how God meets us in our darkest moments too.

Group Discussion Guide

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Introduction

Spend a few minutes discussing with your group how their week is going. What are some of their highs and lows?

After your time of connecting, begin your meeting with prayer.

Key Verse

Psalm 121:8 “The Lord keeps watch over you as you come and go, both now and forever.”

Opening

There are many times where our lives feel like we are thriving! When this happens, we can have moments of great dedication to our health and our spiritual lives; we even make great strides towards knowing those around us relationally. Sometimes, however, we can get to a place where we feel like we are dry and have used up all we have to give, which can be exhausting in so many ways: relationally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally. The worst part about it is, in those times, it feels like nothing helps. The normal rhythms we use to remind ourselves of our worth and to hear God speaking to us seem spent or stale. We may even feel lonely or hopeless or disconnected from others in these moments.  

Ancient Christian writers call this feeling “The Dark Night of the Soul” and it can seem like it came out of the blue or it can be brought on by a sudden painful event. This can be extremely taxing to work through, but God invites us to see our darkest moments as opportunities for him to work in our lives. This leads us to our big idea for the week:

Big Idea for the week: We can be transformed by God through our darkest moments.

Connect

  • What are some indicators of someone who is going through a hard time?
  • How do you express yourself to those around you in difficult or stressful times?
  • When have you experienced “hitting a wall” in your life, where you are emotionally, spiritually, or physically exhausted?

Unpack

Go around your group and have someone read each of the following verses, then discuss the connected questions.

READ

  • Lamentations 3:19-26

DISCUSS

  • Why do you think God allows us to get to a place in our lives where we feel exhausted or like we have “hit a wall”?
  • How do you think God speaks to us during the dark times in our lives? How do you think God wants us to respond?

READ

  • Psalms 139:7-12
  • Psalms 34:17-20

DISCUSS

  • Sometimes when we go through difficulties, there can be a tendency to either over-spiritualize or ignore the hardships we have. How can we avoid these pitfalls?
  • What are some ways that God reminds you that you are not alone and are loved in your life?
  • When you are going through a dark time, what is encouraging to you?
  • Describe a time you were encouraged well by someone.

Apply

Based on the verses we just read, there are some things that we can do in response. Take a moment to discuss these questions as a group in order to determine what your personal action steps for the week can be:

  • Sometimes, we have a hard time feeling God’s presence and that is challenging to go through. What is one new way you can remember God’s love and faithfulness for you this week?
  • Who is one person you can remind of God’s love, acceptance, and provision this week?
  • How can your group help you in your application process this week?

Closing

When we feel spent and there is nothing but a wall in front of us, we can remember God’s faithfulness and that he is with us. This doesn’t mean we need to spiritualize our struggles away or hide them, thinking it will all be okay. God wants us to invite him into all parts of our lives: emotional, physical, relational, intellectual, and spiritual.  He wants to walk through difficult times with you. As we gradually push through these walls, we can also be a light in dark times to others, pointing them toward relying on God’s love and remembering that they are not alone.

Daily Bible Reading

Use the S.O.A.P. method to reflect on the verses below.

Scripture: Read the verses several times out loud.
Observation: As you read the scripture what do you observe.
Application: What is God wanting you to believe, do or feel based on what you have read?
Pray: This is a chance to talk to God about what you have read, and ask him for help in living out what you’ve learned.

  • Day 1: Philippians 4:6
  • Day 2: Nahum 1:7
  • Day 3: Deuteronomy 31:8
  • Day 4: Psalms 23:4
  • Day 5: Psalms 16:8-11
  • Day 6: John 16:33

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PAUL & HOLLY ZWIERZYNSKI

  • Translating the Bible Support
  • North Carolina

Paul and Holly Zwierzynski serve at the JAARS Center in Waxhaw, North Carolina, where they support Bible translation efforts around the world. Paul specializes in solar power and computer networking. He helps missionaries use low-power computers in remote areas and sets up reliable internet connections using tools like satellite and radio links. His work has supported over 180 field sites, allowing translation teams to collaborate across long distances. Holly works in the translation office as a project assistant. She helps develop Old Testament translation guides and reference materials used by Bible translators worldwide. Before moving to North Carolina, Paul and Holly served in Cameroon, where their passion for this work first began.

JERRY & BETH TUCKER

  • Caring for Christian Workers
  • Southern California

Jerry and Beth help prepare new missionaries for the field by leading orientation, providing training, building teams, and offering mentorship during the first year of overseas service. They serve with Wycliffe, a Bible translation organization, and bring years of experience to this important work. Their work began in 1995 in the Philippines, where they served as dorm parents and teachers. Both Jerry and Beth grew up at Journey of Faith, and the church has been supporting their ministry for 30 years. They remain committed to serving for many years to come.

TOM SHECK

  • Youth Development
  • South Bay

 Tom serves as the South Bay Director for the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. His goal is to see lives changed through the influence of athletes and coaches on middle school and high school campuses. FCA focuses on values like integrity, serving, teamwork, and excellence. The ministry equips students and coaches to grow in their faith and lead others by starting small group gatherings on campus, known as “Huddles.” These groups become places of encouragement, leadership, and spiritual growth within the school community.

CODY & LEXI SCRIVENS

  • Meeting Community and Church Needs
  • Dublin, Ireland

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BRYAN & JACINDA MARTIN

  • Meeting Community Needs
  • Philippines

 The Martin family is planting churches in the Philippines through World Team. One of the key ways they serve is by caring for creation. They work with vulnerable communities that are struggling as natural resources become scarce. By teaching sustainable practices for managing the environment, they help meet practical needs while also creating space to share about God’s design for humanity and introduce people to the Creator.

BARBARA LEE

  • Caring for Christian Workers
  • San Diego, CA

Barbara supports missionary families by helping their children access quality education and navigate the many transitions that come with cross-cultural life. She currently leads the Indonesia MK (Missionary Kid) Care and Education Team, providing guidance, resources, and support for families across the region. In late 2025, she will join the U.S.-based MK Care and Education Team, where she will train new missionaries, equip education consultants, offer academic testing, and provide personalized educational help for families preparing to serve.

K & L

  • Starting New Churches
  • Southeast Asia

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TIM & ERICKA HARRIS

  • Caring for Christian Workers
  • Oregon

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MARK & BRENDA HALL

  • Starting New Churches
  • Guadalajara, Mexico

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  • Developing Indigenous Pastors
  • Nepal and North India

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MARK & LISA DENEUI

  • Developing Indigenous Pastors
  • France

 Mark is a Bible teacher focused on the New Testament who trains church leaders and church planters in French-speaking Europe. Lisa teaches English as a Foreign Language and French, using her skills to build relationships and serve the local community while sharing her faith. Together, Mark and Lisa serve with a network of church plants in the city of Strasbourg. They are committed to making Christ’s love known by partnering with the local French church to love their neighbors, share the gospel, and disciple new believers.

D & J

  • Meeting Community Needs
  • Southeast Asia

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JOSEPH BRADFORD IV

  • Meeting Community Needs
  • Los Angeles, CA

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BILL ANKERBERG

  • Developing Indigenous Pastors
  • Estonia

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PAT & BETH ANDREWS

  • Bible Translation
  • Arlington, TX

 Pat serves with Seed Company, a subsidiary of Wycliffe Bible Translators, as Director of Field Projects for the Pacific Region and as a Translation Consultant. He helps oversee translation work in more than 60 languages, coordinating efforts across 11 organizations and 28 internships. Many of Pat’s teams are based in remote island communities, which often presents communication and travel challenges. Even so, Pat makes it a priority to visit his project teams and interns each year.

DENNIS & DENISE AHERN

  • Caring for Christian Workers
  • Washington State

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MIGUEL & MARIA ADAME

  • Church Planting
  • Baja Mexico

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